The other is not that far away from us, but it is the person to whom we have never given due attention and consideration, is the friend to whom we have expressed our gratitude, our son is, not feel our presence or not we ever told what we love, the person who is highly esteemed but treat them with indifference. The other is those who would die for us and we will ignore it or take advantage. The other is the life that flows around us and we continue to live in our shell. Christmas combines the one hand, firm, makes it sensitive to the world around us, on the other hand allows us to reflect on attitudes to change.
Christmas is a little 'test, where everything is put in discussione.E' this unique opportunity to talk and confess, to seek and express our concerns or our fears, as well as our joys are revealed and our moods. It 'a small slice of life, where is the comparison between adults and children, adolescents and elderly. In a tangle of expectations and needs, small conflicts often occur need for new understandings.
Just sit together, now that you establish different approaches among the guests, with codes of expression and different points of view, where the melancholy of the elderly is mixed with the projects of adults, the boldness of youth to the liveliness of children. All they ask to be heard, to receive attention. The adults lay their due cosider, expecting the best moments from the future. The party is to meet halfway in a mutual exchange where one grows and matures. Around a table is see our interlocutor in the eye and the communication has its own triumph, while consuming the same meal together in the most intimate that there may be.
The family is a basic unit of our society, we in the religious sphere. The family is always kept together, is endeavoring to solve the problems better, you feel part of a group that experiences the value of sharing. And 'our source and our heat. It is true that the family now languishes, it is true, however, that increased the actors, we have the so-called extended family, where more interested in the continuity of a feeling and not necessarily the consanguinity. What is required within the family is feeling and stability, affecting the duration of our prosperity comes. It is an institution in command, but a structure that works needs strong roots and strong, and its function is expressed in time. A good base for the family is the love that each component deep for others. Christmas still gives this opportunity after so many centuries of history, and is fortunate to have a moment so magical to cement those relationships even more difficult and hopeless.
In my Natali is always an important event happened which gave rise to future situations as there were Christmases sad knowing that one day a year can not return relationship ever existed. There were Christmases in which I have proof of who we really cared for me, the falsity of some ties, sterile branches that were cut, of 'affection still wondering despite his age and the inability of others to give me what they lacked. All my Christmases have been characterized by expectations that were regularly circumvented. This lack has strengthened me and now that I welcome around my table, my family Christmas, which has components different from those of the past, for me, a celebration of memories, joy in being able to give to others what I've always avuto.In never tried this exercise and continuous affective discrepancy between what we have in, and that is happening outside of us refine our interaction with others.
The family is a social structure characterized by a system of relationships and emotional relationships that develop among its members are for life. If these reports will produce damage, will remain for life if they will love and serenity, this will warm us forever. We must ensure that the cold does not freeze ever family relationships that otherwise would leave an indelible mark. One way to warm up is still a holiday like Christmas, which commemorates the birth of a child, a son born of a love, so the family is nothing but the source of love and life that will propagate over time, leaving inside us the fire to warm for life.
strength, values \u200b\u200band love that a family gives, and you'll see in time your children are the guardians of this treasure, when in turn through, as in a script, all they have lived in the family , can no longer distinguish whether they are themselves the authors of the script or the followers of something they believe.
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