A friend, a few days ago, joking, having received a friendly rebuke from me, told me: "Come on, let's make peace!" That expression quizzical, his children when they want something, brought me back to when we were little and it happened about the same thing.
the quarrel always followed a word a bit 'strange, with the crossing of fingers, to seal what had been said aloud.
Within an hour all ended up on the back burner and start again as if nothing had happened. The dispute deprives us of the game and then tried once again have an excuse for the opportunity to stay in the group.
The game was also a way to channel our energies, where everyone felt part of the group. The game is an active experience for children, so that Friedrich Froebel, German educator known nineteenth century, stated that "only what we do, we can d 'understanding." Gambling affects learning and "nothing is learned in theory or theory, nor knowledge, nor goodness, nor virtue, but by implementing and realizing the true, good, good. " In adults, the same thing should happen. Who does not play is not serious enough and it is completely free. In children play is the only activity possible, the most real experiences and where his skills intellectual and social skills. The quality of life of an adult depends on how he lived as a child, and between the experiences that there is to learn to make peace, to experience what happens if we open ourselves to others.
If we only look at our past as children we learn many things. It would be a way to never be angry, to forgive offenses stupid little disagreements and that we only take away precious time and discover that friendship is a cement which unites in a meaningful way.
It took two words to unleash with the memories, thoughts so simple that no longer have space in our daily lives, always taken by fast-paced and our virtual world.
Just a yes to go to the other, to make them feel our presence.
not be so hard to say yes, to live up to what our intentions to engage with the other. How many times to our interests bind friendships and are able to dissolve them with the same speed with which we have tied up!
True friendship lasts forever, is respectful, caring, protective, engaging, supportive, and this, more than anything else, makes us feel good.
true friends, if we are realists, they are never so many, because each must be on our side and there would be a time so great to hold all. A friend needs attention and listening. In true friendships do not need to see each other often, but know there is the presence and better, when you see is always a party, you are good together, even if you do not see you for a lifetime. Being at peace is a continuous operation, a process that began in 'childhood, lasts throughout our lives. This process must be supplied by us, by a continuous education to emotion, sociability, tolerance and cooperation, in us filing all those negative attitudes that limit the ability to be advocates of peace.
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